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Latent mid-life crisis or insanity?

I am interested in hearing any advise but especially from older men on what is happening to my husband. He's become a sex fiend. He recently got obsessed with a porno chat line, claimed he’d fallen in love, wants a wife and a girlfriend. I told him what would happen--it didn't matter--now we are looking at ending a marriage of 3 decades! Ouch. Is he acting out to try to get rid of me? Now he's out of a fog, like he just woke up, and want to work on "us". Help!

by wokeupstupid 6 Posts
Posted on 5/26/2008 12:39 PM

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sounds like my husband. I think you need to get out of that relationship fast and get yourself into some therapy to keep your emotinos in check. If not, you're in for hell. I've been there. My husband is a porn addtict and in denial. He's not interested in me anymore because I don't live up the fantasy - he says the spark isn't there. Um, yeah, the spark isn't there cause I'm not a prostitute or porn girl. Do not go down thsi path with him, please. I want you to avoid the horrible humiliation and pain.

by mma 18 Posts
Posted on 5/28/2008 3:27 AM

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I am a middle aged man, but I cant really help you, since infidelity is beyond my grasp. I am and always wille loyal to the one I love

by nowareman 58 Posts
Posted on 5/26/2008 6:09 PM

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I agree...It is a male thing. Obviously he is not happy with himself and he is looking for something else to fulfill his inadequacy. Hang in there. My ex did the same thing and now he is not so better off. SO sad for him. the question you need to ask yourself is are you willing to put up with his behavior and choices. Good luck

by dyben 297 Posts
Posted on 5/26/2008 1:23 PM

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Not an older male (older - just not MALE!) : )

BUT

check these links out

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Do-Men-Cheat?&id=470333

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_men_always_cheat

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/82_dating_list.html

by Mb 196 Posts
Posted on 5/26/2008 1:18 PM

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