I have been separated for six years and divorced for three or so and I'm having  a lot of trouble moving on.   What do you do when you're stuck co-parenting with a jerk, for years and years.  And that co-parenting situation remains really nasty.  How the hell do you get over your divorce and move on?   I've been having a hellish time with that.

 My ex dumped me for another, much younger, woman and our adopted 10 year old daughter is living with them.   I'm 65, really much too old to control an emotionally disturbed ten year old.  The problem is that her father and stepmother have blamed me for her problems, are incredibly angry at me, let her know in every way how much they disaprove of me and have contempt for me.   My poor daughter is being torn apart between the two families and she really can't deal with the conflict.  At this point she's not even visiting me, she's bought their estimation of me lock, stock and barrel and also sees me as the enemy.  As you would imagine this is all incredibly painful. 

Six years have passed and I should have moved on, but I am stuck in this ongoing battle and don't see a way out.   Is anyone else stuck in an ongoing battle with their ex and unable to move on.  Or have any of you been there and figured out how to escape.  I can use all the advice I can get.