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What should I do

My wife said that she wanted t see me take care of myself.  Well it has been four months since we separated, and now she is ignoring me totally.  She does not respnd to e mail txt or phone calls.  I just want some closure. It that to much to ask for.  I mean I still love her and have offered to whatever it takes to make it work.  I am lost , and my heart is shattered.

DL

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Posted on 5/12/2008 7:15 PM    
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I feel your pain brother. my wife and I seperated A month ago and she hasn't talked, emailed or had any contact with me since except for the divorce papers she had served on me yesterday. Not being able to communicate makes a terribly tough time even harder. You feel in limbo. I love my wife dearly and don't want this divorce. she has pulled some heartless crap on me during our 5 year relationship and I always manage to forgive her. I can forgive her this time too, because I love her, and want to save our marriage. Stay strong
by nowareman   58 Posts
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DL, first I'd recommend you find some counseling.  You are still grieving the loss of your relationship.  That won't just go away in short order.  It will take real time and real effort to find your bearings again.  If you can get some "emotional closure" the rest can happen over time.

Good luck, bud.
by justokguy   145 Posts
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Hang in there! My heart is shattered and I have rough days also.  Keep bugging her--go see her in person.  Maybe go have coffee?
by stephi   4 Posts
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