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After 39 yrs of marriage - (sorry so long)

For the last ten years are marriage has lacked any intimacy as the result of my wifes bout with cancer. Yes I've strayed once or twice to find satisfaction, but until now neve had an "affair" . Two months ago I meet a woman 27 years young than I for sex after having chatted for about a week, we became involved my wife found out asked if I was going to quit. I said no. After ten years there was finally intimacy, tenderness, caring in my life.

To make a very long story shorter, my wife is in the process of filing, my lady friend dumped me yesterday (it was going too fast). She'd like to be friends.  And I feel like I'm falling apart. Actually breaking into tears at my desk, recently moved here no friends no support, just want to drink myself into a coma.
by Stewart    1 Post   
Posted on 5/12/2008 11:38 AM    
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check out this website: http://www.divorcebusting.com/
It has alot of great articles and advice on how to handle very difficult situations and help you figure out the best way to stay strong and go forward.  I used one of their coaches and it kept me sane.  Good luck.
by saralee   7 Posts
Posted on 5/12/2008 11:44 AM
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