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Dev, it's certainly a difficult situation. I feel for ya. I guess the first question has to do with the living arrangement with your son currently. Is he doing OK? Is he fairly well adjusted? Do you and your ex get along? Do you get to spend the kind of time you want presently? Are you happy with the current custody arrangement? If the answer to all that is yes, speaking for myself, as much as I hated my job, I would be hard-pressed to leave a seven-year-old son to go several thousand miles away and lose a lot of contact with him. Sure, there's telephones and e-mail and webcams... but somehow, I wouldn't think it would be the same.
Second, I would seriously re-evaluate your work situation. Maybe you could find a different job in CT in a different field. Even if it did not pay as much, it might be work the sacrifice. Or you might consider a total change, something you really love doing, not just tolerate.Just some random thought, man. I hope you can find the right balance.
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