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Court date on Monday.  Husband wants every other week for children.  I disagree.  He has no routine, schedule for the kids.  My 6 year old is in kindergarten.  We have offered every other weekend - Fri - Monday morning and one night per week.  My children and I have a home to move into.  Husband is with parents and my 6 year old son sleeps on the sofa when they are there.  Will that help my case?  He has made no preparation for the children.
by santafe    56 Posts   
Posted on 5/9/2008 11:57 AM    
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the fact he lives with his mom and the couch have no bearing on his custody - some people are forced into cramped living situations after a divorce and everyone sleeps on the floor.

Having his mom there is actually in his favor.


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by spaznskitz   2584 Posts
Posted on 5/10/2008 2:20 AM
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no motivation and he has his mother to help
by santafe   56 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 2:02 PM
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I am not sure if you want him to have more time with the kids or less..everyother w/end and one night per week sounds good.  Both parent should be in contact with there child/children but what is he doing living with his parent?...hope this is a temporary arrangement.Good Luck
by NAUDI   19 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 1:32 PM
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