Hi..never thought I would be here...I,m 51 yrs old..my wife is 41 yrs old. We meet while both of us were in bad marriages and had an affair, We both filed for Divorce from our spouses and moved in together an eventually married almost three years ago. About 43.5 years ado she told me she needed to go back to her ex because their was something in her heart telling her she may of left him without giving him a chance and she needed to know before our relationship could move forward. I was terrible upset but couldnt stop her. She left the home for about 6 weeks before calling me and wanting to come home because she didnt love him anymore. I accepted her back. We were married 8 months later. We have had a GREAT marriage. She is my best friend..I love her like no other woman. We had the best time with each other. She has 3 kids,,,19, 17, and 10..I treated them well but like all kids we had some problems but not bad. Her ex married a tattoed motorcycle lady that her kids hated and he slowing distanced himself from his kids not seeing or talking to them for months at a time. I was their dad. My wife works 11-12 hours a day and her job is very stressful for her. So I was the one that watched the boys, cooked dinner, homework cleaning ect. I wanted to do all this because I didnt expect her to have to after working so much. Her ex divorced the motorcycle woman about a year ago and started seeing his kids every once in awhile. My wife and I had made summer plans and everything was great until I noticed about a month ago a change in her normally bubbly behavior. Oh my the way her ex is losing his home to foreclourser and is a mess fininancially. I ask what what was wrong and she kept saying nothing. Last week she finally said she didnt love me and didnt want to be married anymore. I was DEVESATATED... She moved out and sent to a text message saying she was going back to her ex again. She also commented that "whenever I,m nice to her or do things around the house she resents me and makes her angry" I dont no what to do..I cant eat or sleep..she wont call me...Will she come back when he sees it wont work with her ex again..she is a very independant women. HELP PLEASE