I don't want him back at home, do I have to deal with it?!

M unhusband has told me that it doesn't matter what I want that since his name is on the lease and he's paying for it he is going to stay here. He's emotionally (and has been sometimes physically) abusive and I really don't want to be under the same roof as him. He'll be returning soon from another state (he's been training for the military). Do I have no choice but to live with him?

The only other option he offered me was for me to move out instead.

by Emeraldsky 175 Posts
Posted on 5/3/2008 9:40 PM

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leased properties are difficult with divorce - because you can't force one or the other out if they have their name on the lease due to it not being marital property and there is a binding legal instrument allowing then to be there.

If you don't want to be around him then you have to move.

Or, if he does get physical with you & leaves a mark then don't hesitiate to call 911, You then can get an RO and he will have to find somewhere else to go. (this does not mean you should start a fight just to get him to hurt you so you can get the RO though)

I'm a family law attorney

by spaznskitz 3845 Posts
Posted on 5/4/2008 4:12 AM

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