I had written before- my main concern was that I am a  24 year old student and I work full time but my husband who wants the divorce is the one who makes most of the money, but it is a modest amount, nothing huge- I moved here to Memphis where his family is from California where mine is- we bought a house, etc. and spent most of the money we had saved on things for the house. I dont want the divorce because I want to work things out- but I am not going to fight it or him anymore, and I just want to leave because basically I am here alone. He wants to do things fairly- he was already written it down, etc. and if it stays that way, I dont want to do anything that is unfair. I am not totallly naive. My question is, when I move back home, I understand that I am going to have to be pretty quick to find work, etc., but what options do I have as far as money? Am I going to have to take out a loan until I get on my feet? Has anyone ever had to deal with leaving with basically nothing to start over again? My folks really cant help me out as they arent very well off, so I am just stressed and worried. I wont get much from the settlement or whatever it is- I am not going to play mean or dirty but I know my rights and if he tries anything then that goes out the window. I just need other options- loans, what??? Divorce is such an ugly thing.