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im lost and confused on what i should do. plz help?

im 19 yrs old and have been married for a year. We have been together for about 3 and 1/2 yrs. hes been in jail 3 times and everytime he goes in no matter how long it is i cheat on him. i moved to texas 2 be with him at the end of january 07 and ive cheated on him 4 times since.  he only knows about 1 time. i know that i have a problem with cheating and it seems like i cant stop. the only time i feel bad about it is when he confronts me. lately i have started really liking one of the guys that i've been cheating on him with. i want to get a divorce and that way im not cheating or hurting him anymore, but i heard its complicated and theres alot of paper work. should i just leave the state and never come back and just let him file for divorce or what?
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