My husband and I have been married for three years...we got married really quickly and when I was 21 and he was 22. It seems as if we have grown apart as we have gotten older. We moved from San Diego, where my entire family is, to Memphis, where his family is. I have tried to adjust and things are just starting to come together for me. Anyways, he has decided that he wants a divorce- that he will never be happy with me and less than 24 hours later he is online filling out paperwork. I asked if we could try a separation first- he said it would make no difference. I am so lost, have no idea what to do- we bought a house a year ago- got a new car three months ago- and although we can afford it, we dont really have any savings. If I am not with him, I truly see no point in being here, so I think that I am going to have to go home to San Diego. I just have no idea how this all works. He doesnt want to go through an attorney- we really cant afford it- so he is trying to do it all by himself. We arent going to argue over anything- if he wants the house, he really can have it...I am just wondering what people have done that have been through this and dont have the money to go on by themselves? Did you have to take out a loan? Literally I have nothing- and I have a big car payment. I am a college student so hes the one that has been making most of the money. Do I need to get an attorney? I am honestly incredibly clueless...I never thought I would have to go through  this, and although I dont think he will change his mind- I am still holding on to some sort of hope that he will- and I know that thinking is going to get me crushed. Help?