My fixing to be ex-wife won't quit harassing me

My wife of 5 years recently informed me she was unhappy. I hated that. I felt like I was doing everything I could. We have children involved and I keep them as much as possible. The problem is, as the divorce moves on, as we talk and seperate the community property and bills, she uses this as an opportunity to be irrational and spiteful. I try not to engage in the activity but she just won't stop. I found out that ultimately she is seeing someone else. She has made her choices and I have let her go with them. Its almost as if she is mad that I am not begging her to come back. I deserve better than to play head games with the heart. I may be wrong. Let me know what you think.

by gmd0308 8 Posts
Posted on 4/25/2008 2:58 PM

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Thanks guys for your help. I am still coaching my stepsons (her son from previous) baseball team and she brings this new fellow to the game and claims that he is my stepsons baseball coach on the side. I wound keeping my son with her and my stepson all weekend (Thurs-Sun). She is lying to them as well and I just can't believe that she would disregard them. I take the kids to see her granparents after church every Sunday because I know I if I didn't, they would never get to see them. I did tell my stepson that I believe that hard times are coming soon for him. I told him that the world will stop spinning the way his mother wants and she will blame me and him, anybody else but her. There is no rationalization that I can understand as to why she would risk losing everything she claimed to hold dear.

by gmd0308 8 Posts
Posted on 4/29/2008 10:05 AM

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Gmd - I hate that game, you are the better person for not engaging or playing it. She is looking for justification on part of your behaviour for what she has done to you. You are being baited......and you are smart not to bite!

by blackout 7 Posts
Posted on 4/28/2008 2:50 PM

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many people act like that when they know they've done something horrible. it's guilt. stay the better person, if you can. she has to live with herself....

by Vicki 854 Posts
Posted on 4/25/2008 3:45 PM

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