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"Finding out he truth about your husband"

If your husbands mistress has contacted you and brought everything to light for you about their relationship. How do you get over findng out this relationship?

by adina 5 Posts
Posted on 4/24/2008 9:15 PM

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Yes karomelkitty you are on the mark. He is also sounding like he is regreting what he has done. I don't know if I could ever trust or want him to touch me ever again.

by adina 5 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 8:58 PM

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Take comfort in the fact that if she felt the need to contact you to tell on him, then he is doing something off the cuff behind HER back and she either knows it & can't prove it or she is reaping the fruits of her illict relationship with your husband. She told on him to try to control him by making him leave you and come to her.. this will be one of those 'what goes around comes around" stories soon.. Keep the faith, stay strong for you & your children. Odds are after a little while he will be trying to find a way to come back if for nothing more than "better the devil you know than the one you don't."
Spend some time soul searching to decide if you want to take him back when he broaches the subject and how you feel this will impact your relationship with him. I have found that even when you take him back, that unless you are a very strong trusting person, then once the trust is broken it is VERY VERY difficult to put it back into play totally...This may be a blessing that you have gotten but it just doesn't look like one right now.

by karomelkitty 30 Posts
Posted on 4/27/2008 4:44 PM

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i just recently been contacted by the other woman and we both shed light to what was going on. but i think he's there now cause the fact i know about the afair for sure.if she never called me then he'd be here still. now i just take each day and try to be strong for myself and my children. good luck and i hope that whatever the outcome is that you'll be strong and life will treat you better.

by leilani 11 Posts
Posted on 4/25/2008 12:13 AM

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