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what to do im lost

when people dont talk who is wrong the talker or the person who doesnt talk is it over or do you wait

by buffalo   8 Posts 
Posted on 4/20/2008 4:19 PM
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People deal with situations differently it sounds like you should try and get into some therapy together if both paries are willing.  Good Luck!
by Bea4   406 Posts
Posted on 4/21/2008 4:10 PM
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neither is "wrong" per se -

 

when a split occurs, it generally means discussion has either fallen on deaf ears for a very long time, or one or the other never tried to see the other's side - and by this point, it's too little too late - and talking doesn't mean much.

If someone just doesn't want to talk right now, that means they need to think - and you have to give them the leway to do so, without having to be interrupted by your opinions about it.

I know it is frustrating, but you can't make someone talk to you - and they have a right to feeling the way that they do.

by spaznskitz   3855 Posts
Posted on 4/20/2008 7:12 PM
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no my wife and i dont talk for years we talk but not much she talks to friends and family but not me now she left and wont talk at all
by buffalo   8 Posts
Posted on 4/20/2008 4:34 PM
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do you mean your friends or you and your spouse?
by oct15   175 Posts
Posted on 4/20/2008 4:26 PM
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