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what to do now continued.

i forgot ot mention that he gets paid every two weeks but on the week where he doesn't get paid his boss gives him 800.00 cash. so if i take him to court he's show he makes less than what he really does. how do  i handle that? does the proof of his adultry count in n.y.?

by leilani   11 Posts 
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most cell phones nowadays have recording devices on them.  call him with a newer pre paid cell phone record him on the matter at hand.  then give all the recorded material over to the attorney.  your evidence is now taken care of.  hope this helped you in anyway
by Raymondj65   3 Posts
Posted on 4/20/2008 3:14 AM
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hey Leilani

New York ONLY recognizes fault divorces - so yes, adultry is grounds. There is a mandatory 1 year legal separation requirement.

 

Now. NY is also what is called a "one party state" meaning, that you can record phone conversations with him without his consent - all you have to do is have a conversation with him on the phone (while recording) about the $800.00 cash and you have him on it. Radio Shack sells recording equipment, it's pretty cheap too. I'm sure you can come up with a creative way to get that into the conversation. You then have the recording transcribed by a neutral party (your atty's paralegal can do it more than likely) and bingo - it's admissable evidence.

 

I'm a family law attorney

by spaznskitz   3855 Posts
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