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am i entitled to anything ?

my husband cheated on me 3 times with 2 different women and has 3 illegitimate kids with them. we tried to make our marriage work but i recently found out that he is with one of the women he cheated on me with again. i have pictures to prove it. we've been married almost 12 years now and have 3 children of our own. he still lives here but says it's over with that woman but i feel this marriage might not make through this time. while we were married he was in a car accident on the job and injured his shoulder and had 2 surgeries which i took very good care of him while recovering. it is going through suit now. if we split up before his settlement am i entitled to half or or part of that settlement since i was married to him at the time it happened. also, he was always out and not coming home a lot an i took note of the days he was gone how much visitation rights does he have since he hardly took care of kids? i don't work and don't have any funds because he was the primary provider. where do i go from here if he decides to end this

by leilani   11 Posts 
Posted on 4/19/2008 6:59 AM
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Ok first, you won't have any rights to his settlement money, regardless if you are married at the time it comes through. It isn't "income".

 

It depends on what state you live in if his adultry has any bearing on your divorce or not, If you live in a state that has no-fault divorce grounds - it won't make any difference if he slept with and fathered children with every woman in your zip code - the distribution of assets will still be the same.

What his visitation rights will be has very little to do with how much he sees the kids now - he will still have the right to up to 50% of time with them if he chooses to fight for it.

since you were the homemaker, you will be entitled to some spousal support for a period of time until you can support yourself.

 

If I were you, I'd start socking away some of the grocery money and other cash that you can just in case you end up needing an attorney if he takes off on you.


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by spaznskitz   3855 Posts
Posted on 4/19/2008 9:30 AM
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