It's amazing how a group within a civilized society can destroy future lives

I'm sorry that you are so angry.  I am a Christian and do not feel anyone in this group has "banded together" to destroy marriages or lives. 

This group has given hope, support, friendship to those who are hurting and confused.

I will pray for you and your anger.

Who are you to judge everyone on this site when you don't even comprehend what we are going thru?  God is the only one who can pass judgement on anyone.  We are all here to heal and get advice from people who have been thru it themselves.  The people with children are here to protect their kids from the low lifes they are divorcing or who are divorcing them.  Last time I looked in the bible adultry was a sin and I think it's up to the individual as to how and when they are going to pass forgiveness.  I have a hard time forgiving my ex for destroying my family and another persons family as well, just because he couldn't keep it in his pants!!  The kids are the victims in all this and need to be protected and nutured and loved.  I will pray for you as well, sounds like you need it.

And I pray for you triguyfl, my friend.  I pray that God opens your eyes and heart to the true ravages of sin within our world.  Pride is the worst.  Pride is hypocracy.  It ignores the nature of the old adam within the man and say's "I am right and justified for my rightousness."  You're not. I'm not.  Our salvation comes ONLY through the gift of love given freely upon the cross. It has NOTHING to do with what You or I have or haven't done in the name of sin.  Isaiah 64:6 says, "all our righteous acts are like filthy rags." Even our best isn't worthy.

If you truly understood this, you would not mock God by using his words to condemn his children this site. Divorce in itself is not a sin.  Even Christ allowed for it (5:31), and not everyone here is "plotting a divorce." I don't know anyone here who is divorcing for "revenge." Some are victims.  Some are are innocent; they came here to heal from wounds caused by the unrightious, yet you would spurn them cast them from heaven if it were in your power. You use the word "forgiveness," but it falls from your lips like lye onto flesh-caustic and blind to what it wounds.

As for the "shame and disgust" cast upon us by our children, I am a child of divorce.  I pronounce here and now that I do not have any of these feelings for my parents. I love them both deeply. They are flawed humans. So am I. If God can love a sinner such as I, than who am I to withold the love he entrusted to me?  For even as you cast the stones of condemnation at my head I pray for you.  It's all I can do.  It's what I was taught.  And if I ever have children, it is what I will teach them to do.  I will ask every Christian who reads this to pray for you, and pray that you never know the ravages of divorce.

Wow, couldn't let this one go by.  Who besides God has the right to pass judgement? People informed enough and asking for support and help are the enlightened ones.  God gave us that ability, and it would be an inservice to him not to use it!  As spaznskitz said it is your opinion, and I believe until you've walked in our shoes it is one better kept to yourself.

wow, who peed on your communion wafer?

Last time I checked not everyone on here who are divorcing have children, and most of those who do are looking to protect their children from a bad situation, keeping them from a life destroyed.

It is widely said that children suffer less being FROM a broken home rather than living in one, and I personally am of the opinion it is the right thing to do to get children away from the influence of adulterers, alcoholics, physical & mental abusers etc...if you think otherwise, well, that is your opinion and you certainly are entitled to it.

I'm a family law attorney and I haven't been kicked out of church or shunned yet, so I must be doing something right.