I have been with my husband for eight years 4 of them married.  I have raised his two boys along with my son and daughter.  I have been faithful and a wonderful mother in the face of his selfish narcissitic ways.  He told me a few months ago it was over, stating it was the money, dog, (a load of excuses) I found out after much suspicion he is seeing his high school sweet heart (from 25 yrs ago).  I knew when I found out about the calls and even mentioned to him this could be dangerous if kept secret but he does what feels good for the moment and contiued the relationship.  I am crushed at the rejection, but know in my heart I am a far better person for I have always been open, honest and tried to make communication a priority.  Unfortunately we cannot change our partner and their true colors always shine through.  He left me the week before Christmas to go skiing(so he said) I found out on Christmas Eve (our wedding anniversary) he was in England with another woman. That apparently over I tried to forgive, now I find out about his old girlfriend and I am devastated.  I want to be angry and move on with my life as I deserve so much better.  He has left me in a horrible situatuation as the house we moved into together is solely in his name.  Ironically the shore place he is in this weekend with her is also in his name only.  I am forced to move on with nothing but my pride.  Can someone please give me some advice on how to do that??  I haven't recieved my papers yet, but he has gotten notice of the filing.  It is very new and I am raw, I could really use some advise.  Thanks