Unbelievable..

No one will ever believe this....I have been in the process of divorce for over 8 years. I filed the first time and when we went to court, my husband (who ran our jointly owned business) told me that there were tax issues and we needed to wait out the statute of limitations in order to save thousands of dollars and avoid issues with the IRS. I found out years later, that was a lie. But, I was a stay at home mom who trusted what he told me. This move on his part gave him years to steal and hide maritial assets mostly money. 3 years ago, I filed again. He had been playing money games with me and not giving me money to pay bills and take care of our 3 children. My first attoney billed me for over $13,000 in the first 6 months. I fired her. Then the second attorney billed me over $10,000 and didn't even get me close to a divorce. It was all consultation. I fired him. The third attorney was smooth at first and nice in the initial visit and when he took my $5,000, but after that he would yell at me and belittle me. During all this, I have sold everything I can get my hands on, worked 2 jobs, cashed in my retirement and I was still getting horrible service. Every battle my husband and I had in the court room, I lost. My attorney threated to resign several times, which I should have let him do, but I kept thinking, it would be over soon. Now here we are almost 3 years later with more set backs than should ever happen. My husband and I met with the attorneys and came to an agreement on Feb. 18, 2008. But the day after we signed it (which was also signed by our judge) my husband found out that he was being audited by the IRS. He has committed fraud, but that is not my problem. We have been seperated for over 9 years, so I was unaware of what he was doiing with his taxes, etc. So my husband decided that he did not want ot go through with the agreement, becuase of potential fines, so we went back to court. Supposedly, (I never saw the judge this whole time) the judge decided to go with my husband and lower the child support by $200 (which had been agreed upon 2 months earlier). When my husbands attorney drew up the papers, sudeenly there were items in this new settlement that were not in the original. Now my attorney is threatening to withdraw from my case if I don't sign the papers that have really bad items for me. What do I do?