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Is it Right to Blog About Your Ex?

Divorce is painful and private.  We all need outlets to work through our emotions and find a way to stay sane. In the days of instant online publication, divorce is becoming anything but private.  Between the YouTube appearance by Tricia Walsh Smith, and the Vermont blogger who bagged on his wife, the world is starting to take notice of the internet community and divorce.

 

These are only the latest divorce bloggers of note.  According to a recent Pew Institute study, many people are turning to internet blogging to work through their divorce.  But what's the difference between working through emotions and vindictive defamation?  Courts have been reluctant to draw the line.

 

Laurie is a podcast blogger.  She found out her husband was having an affair through a Blackberry text from her boss.  In her podcast, she never mentions her husbands name and, according to her listeners, she maintains the pretense of impartiality.  Still, she admits, “I am 100 percent aware that if he told his version of the marriage, it would be completely different.”

 

As more and more high profile people take to the internet stage, look for the courts to start taking a firmer stance on what's acceptable blogging and what is not.

 

Source: www.nytimes.com


by inthenews    485 Posts   
Posted on 4/18/2008 7:06 AM    
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I know that when someone hurts you badly, it's hard to not want to speak out about it, but doing it on the internet in a way that brings every crazy person out of the bushes isn't my idea of a healthy way to release. In most cases, I think it backfires on you to some extent, and especially if it's a crazy story to begin with. Nobody is perfect, but these marriages that start off with younger women marrying a man twice their age for money is never going to end smoothly. Nor should marriage ever be used for gain like in some of these high profile cases. The problem I have is this: These men are not innocent either, for they 'knew' they were marrying a woman that didn't love them for themselves, and still, they did it. So, where does their responsibility lie?

Blogging about your ex is only 'one' way to get back at your ex, and it's not helping anyone but the people who read about it. You're entertaining them, and nothing else. So, if you've got to blog it down, then make it private until you've got your feelings, or emotions under control. You'll come out feeling much better about it in the end.
by vicki546   26 Posts
Posted on 4/20/2008 8:35 AM
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