could use a females perspective

It has been a year since her affair began. i have sorted out all that I feel and come to terms with it. We seperated for 4 months last summer and got back together during the holidays and decided to move about an hour away for a fresh start, i really tried to reset. what was once a great sex life has become un-intimate. I have learned that she is still in contact with him thru his wife and because she and I are in contact I know what the atmosphere is in their house as well (it is very much like mine). She denies seeing him (she is still commuting to her job in the old town) but I think I am standing to close to see the truth. Obviously, trust is dead at my house and love is lost. Is it time to walk away? Will the move change anything? She told me once that she fell for him hard...could she really quit him cold? Are young children reason enough to stay in this marriage?

by cutdeep 93 Posts
Posted on 4/15/2008 1:56 PM

Get Alerts!

send to friend

0	Flag item :: Why are you flagging item: Submit \| Cancel

Tags:

Answers for "could use a females perspective" (19) (You must be logged in to answer)

I do not agree with been there done that, and please do not either. What will you be teaching your children about love? They will think that is what a real marriage is and how it is supposed to be. As hard as it is to split the kids up, i am starting to realize that having to share my daughter but letting her see what real true love is, is much better then staying and showing her that a marriage for better or worse is to stay and be cheated on and abused mentally. Don't cut your kids short show them how two people are supposed to treat each other.

by razmataz321 64 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 5:58 PM

	0	Flag item :: Why are you flagging item: Submit \| Cancel

Community :: Should I Stay or Should I Go :: Answers

could use a females perspective