I'm not the homewrecker!! Please help us!! Appraise what?

I am currently living with my boyfriend who has been going through a horrendous divorce. (I am not to blame for the divorce!) He now has to hire an appraiser in order to settle property division. We have furnished the entire house with mostly my belongings. I still have numerous household items stored in our garage, ie: oven range, fridge/freezer, entertainment center, etc. We have been told that everything in the house will be appraised and that he will have to "star" his items. Would it be in our best interest for me to sell some of my items or store them elsewhere? Does anyone know anything about this process?  They have very little property that is worth much of anything.  Their most expensive item is a pop-up camper valued around $3,000.  Being that 95% of this household is my stuff, I am afraid that this all-inclusive list will be quite deceiving to the judge, even with his starred items. Does this mean that an appraiser will literally be counting bath towels? This has become ridiculous.  Any information would be helpful.  Thank you!