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2 good to be true

i have been married for 16 yrs. infidelity on both sides. he has alot of female friends that he goes out with without me. he does not want me to be uncorfortable. he has been doing this for yrs. but if i go out with any male freind i have i goes crazy. he does not trust guys. so i told him i don't trust women. i have had too many female so called friends hit on my husband. i can't trust him anymore , last years he went and screwed a neighbor, i have known for some years. know i think he is having sex with another female that i have known for years also. i can't prove it.HELP!!!!
by solively2    2 Posts   
Posted on 4/14/2008 7:50 PM    
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The only reason i did cheat on him in the first place was he went to jail. several times and it wasn't until the last time did i cheat. it has been 9yrs since and i have been faithful to him. But someone keep telling him that i cheated while he was away. He was constantly asking me if i did. of course i said no for yrs. then i told him the truth and things got worse between us. we moved away for awhile. too many people in our business. he said it was so we can close the chapter on that part of our lives and so we can start over. he couldn't close the chapter. he keeps inclose contact with both of the girls and says he misses them.  i want try and save my marriage. he tells me that i am his wife for life and he loves me and nobody else.
by solively2   2 Posts
Posted on 5/2/2008 7:38 AM
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first things first if you dont trust him,then y are u with him anyway it seems to me that you guys are playings games and u dont need to be married, your mate is your best friend and this is not the case i think that you guys need to seperate cause the married is a lie the two of you are unfaithful to either and that is not love.
by katt7369   2 Posts
Posted on 4/18/2008 11:10 AM
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is your question should you stay married and both of you cheat or is your question should i get a divorce?i'm serious: do you know what you want?
by Kimabby   23 Posts
Posted on 4/14/2008 9:01 PM
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