Can Separation of Space Save You from a Separation of Marriage?

In marriage, sometimes a little space is a good thing.  It doesn't mean you don't love your partner, it can mean that you love them enough to try and avoid an obvious fight over something stupid. Pet peeves, we all have them, and sometimes we can build a little space to keep them from damaging our  marriages.

Journalist Theresa Walsh Giarrusso uses separation techniques to keep her marriage sane.  She says that her husband is a more organized person than she is.  This means things like separate closets and separate desks are a must.

Separate bank accounts can also be a good idea.  One account for bills, and two individual accounts can keep couples who bicker about spending away from each other's throats.  Does the way he rolls up the toothpaste tube drive you nuts?  Get him his own tube, and maybe his own bathroom while your at it.

Although statistics show that couples who speak their minds stay together longer, it's good to know when it's an actual issue or just peeve vs. bad habit. If you can separate those things, it can help save your marriage.