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I finally left

Whew! I finally got out of his house. I told him Friday that I hadn't been happy for a long time, and I moved on Saturday. Over the course of the last 6 months he has mentioned marriage counseling, twice when we were fighting (Nov, New Year's Eve) then he e-mailed me on 2/4/08, all 3 times I said I would go but the appts not made. We are not a team on anything, I couldn't even get him to do his taxes with me so I finally filed married seperate (We have only been married 1 year 5 months) And we haven't been intimate since last JULY!  The last 2 weeks on Sunday (our only day off) he slept all day, on Easter he didn't even dress for the day!  Done done done.. I got a job and moved back to my condo.   Now my question,  I had to change my job 2x because  I moved 2 hours away, I own a condo that I couldn't sell, so now I have moved back into it and am starting a new job, and he wants immediately to file for a uncontested divorce. The only thing we have together is my car and he wants me to get my own car loan ASAP.  I am a hairdresser and need to rebuild my clientele, so I asked him for a couple of months to get back on my fee, he says ok but I need to start looking now on how to pay for my car. I just moved Saturday, and went to the house and got more of my stuff today... I think he's ticked because I went there when he was at work. I just need to distance myself for a long time..  If you read my previous journals you will understand more of what/how I have been living.. 

by islandgal   54 Posts 
Posted on 3/31/2008 7:57 PM
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Islandgal... yes... it is good that you moved on... but check how those moves may affect your divorce... cause some of those things may get back to you and bite on your tail!!!!!
Good luck
by Tato   417 Posts
Posted on 4/1/2008 8:44 PM
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Islandgal, I have been following your story and am so glad you finally moved on.  You have so much more to offer someone and deserve to be treated much better. Just work hard to build your new clientele and try to make enough to make your payments on your car.  You are fortunate to have a condo to move in to.  Keep me posted on how it is going.
by Bea4   406 Posts
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