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So Unhappy...

Hi I'm back again. I am incredibly depressed. I don't know if it's because I am still in this marraige or not.  I think it's a big part of it though. There is absolutely no physical relationship and hardly an emotional.  it's getting harder because he is becoming frustrated with my unhappiness because he can't help me with it.  He says we should just get this over with because he doesnt want me to suffer from this relationship and he says it hurts him as well. I'm trying to be happy but I cant. It's hard to be happy when you aren't.
by lonestar    16 Posts   
Posted on 3/17/2008 2:13 PM    
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There is nothing lonelier than being lonely in a marriage.  After a while you have crossed the sanity line and do not even know it.   That is why we need to support each other.
by linkie   7 Posts
Posted on 3/20/2008 1:56 AM
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Very good point JHL!  I think you hit the nail right on the head. It is so much easier to stay in a relationship where it may not be what you want but it is predictable and can get quite comfortable.
I can most certainlt relate to this.

Lonestar it's time for you to move on with your life. Discover happiness again. You deserve it!
by RichBrewer   213 Posts
Posted on 3/18/2008 11:20 PM
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No love... you should leave before it gets you even lower.... divorce and you will be happier... good luck.
by Tato   417 Posts
Posted on 3/18/2008 8:59 PM
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My mom said something to me this week...sometimes we feel like it is easier to stay because it is what we are used to.  It is scary to venture out on your own when you have been with this other person.  The unknown can be too unpredictable.  When you stay put, then you know what you are going to get-good or bad, and that alone can be the comfort that keeps you from moving on.
by JHL   14 Posts
Posted on 3/18/2008 5:10 PM
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I agree that if the love is gone...then so should you.  Time to move on and face the reality that you did all you could and maybe it was just not meant to be.
by lynnrosie   5 Posts
Posted on 3/18/2008 2:14 PM
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