Question

Posted to group - Difficult Ex's

<<Previous Next>>

The new man in my children's lives and my children's mother are a problem. They have violated every parenting guideline for children of divorce.

I'm having some difficulty dealing with my ex wifes new husband and his involvement in parenting issues. He has identified himself in public as "dad", endangered my children by leaving guns laying around, allowing them to ride quads with no protective gear and manipulating the children to lie or never ride the quads again if they tell me. He uses religion as a manipulator and during my sons recent surgery was very invasive into the event. My ex refuses to communicate and he responds for her to all of my written concerns. Suggestions? I've tried all of the traditional means and every time I am sure I have more than enough to make a case I find the system is not going to back me. Dr.'s are mandatory reporters but no report was made for the dangerous use of the quad. Services To Children and families was made aware of the guns but basically told me that while I could file a complaint little would be done and it would only cause further problems with my ex.

by goingnuts 33 Posts Posted on 3/13/2008 11:10 PM	send to friend e-mail this from divorce360.com [The new man in my children's lives and my children's mother are a problem. They have violated every parenting guideline for children of divorce.] - divorce360.com To E-mail: Separate multiple addresses with commas(,) From (Your name) : Your e-mail address: Message:	Log in to Add Friends Message with Invite: Send Friend Invite \| nevermind
Tags:

0	Flag item :: Why are you flagging item: Message: Submit \| Cancel

read more from user >>

Answer s for "The new man in my children's lives and my children's mother are a problem. They have violated every parenting guideline for children of divorce." (2) (You must be logged in to answer)

Any time a person around your children that is exposing them to danger it needs to be dealt with in court.
You will have to have proof though and if it is your childrens testimony then they will have to testify. Good Luck!

by mtnvly 717 Posts
Posted on 3/15/2008 10:27 AM

Log in to Add Friends Message with Invite: Send Friend Invite \| nevermind	0	Flag item :: Why are you flagging item: Message: Submit \| Cancel

If he is leaving guns around the kids, you could report it to the police or Child Protective Services. They would definitely do an investigation.
It's not clear what do you want to be done in this matter in general.

by Smirdule 5 Posts
Posted on 3/15/2008 12:42 AM

Log in to Add Friends Message with Invite: Send Friend Invite \| nevermind	0	Flag item :: Why are you flagging item: Message: Submit \| Cancel

Divorce360.com is not a substitute for advice from a lawyer, accountant, financial planner, therapist or other professional to obtain advice. Divorce360.com is not intended to, and should not, take the place of professional advice. The opinions expressed in the divorce360.com message boards are those of the author and the author alone. Divorce360.com does not endorse any specific product or service.

popular blogs

I'm letting you go!
Another letter to my wife that I will never give her. There are some parts in...read more >>

Is she cheating on me?
My wife has steadfastly denied infidelity as a reason for our marriage...read more >>

What is rebound love?
What is rebound love? I always heard of it but I realized that I...read more >>

get/give answers

I hope i`m wrong.

I wanna believe my husband so bad on what he told me, i don`t know if i`m...Read Answers/share yours >>

Boy, did I make a discovery today!!!!!!!!!

I was cleaning out some paperwork that was no longer needed and was going...Read Answers/share yours >>

involving kids in divorce

How do I deal with an ex that CONSTANTLY involves kids in EVERYTHING. Legal,...Read Answers/share yours >>

expert Q&As

Faith Therapy : Does a Separation Work?

My Husband and I Are Having Trouble. Is It a Good Idea for Us to Separate?...read more >>

Stress Relief: Tips to Help after Separation

Mental Health: Overwhelmed by Changes in Household Routine. What Should I do?...read more >>

About Law: Do Divorce Kits Work?

Legal: What You Should Consider When You Think About Divorcing Using a Kit...read more >>

divorce360.com provides help, advice and community for people
contemplating, going through or recovering from divorce and the issues around it,
including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.

Question

The new man in my children's lives and my children's mother are a problem. They have violated every parenting guideline for children of divorce.

e-mail this from divorce360.com

Flag item ::

Flag item ::

Flag item ::

popular blogs

get/give answers

expert Q&As

help you budget and plan

definitions from "alimony" to "writ of execution"

divorce, custody and child support links by state

get help now

divorce360.com provides help, advice and community for people contemplating, going through or recovering from divorce and the issues around it, including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.

Community :: Difficult Ex's :: Answers

Question

The new man in my children's lives and my children's mother are a problem. They have violated every parenting guideline for children of divorce.

e-mail this from divorce360.com

Flag item ::

Flag item ::

Flag item ::

popular blogs

get/give answers

expert Q&As

help you budget and plan

definitions from "alimony" to "writ of execution"

divorce, custody and child support links by state

get help now

divorce360.com provides help, advice and community for people
contemplating, going through or recovering from divorce and the issues around it,
including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.