I have tried to make this work and it is just getting worse as time goes on, My husband has a hisory of drinking and he is not a good boy, HE does not get physical or anything like that he just says a lot of things he lashes out on me most of the time then on top of it he does not think reponsible drinking or not, one time he was drinking and could hardly walk and asked our son to go for a ride with him and I told him no way and he told me that he can take him if he wants to and there was nothing that I could do about it thank goodness that he did follow through with it but my thing is what if I leave him he gets his weekends and puts my child in a car while he is under the influence or tries to burn down the house, he had fallen asleep with our oven on before when I was gone for one night, and another thing when my son is sick my husband always say that I make it worse then what it is all the time but the truth is everytime I took our son to the Doctors he either has ear infections high fevers, flu what ever it may be at the time and my husband never ever checks to see if our son is sick or not there was also a time that I was working and my husband called and told me that our son was acting like he was sick and I had asked my husband if he took a temp, he said no ( of course) so I told him to do it and he said that he was fine that he did not need to, so when I got home my son looked awful so I took the temp not to mention that he was a fire cracker and his temp was 103.5 I called the Dr and she told me to get our child to the ER and my husband thinks its all a joke so I stay in this marriage thing because my husband would not take care of our child the way that he should or I am afraid that something would happen to our son. My husband has some issues and he does not think to responsible about things and I just am scared to end this marriage for the sake of our son but at the same time it is taking a toll on me as well. He does not love me he too stays for our son either one of us want to give him up but we are not getting along at all and I try not to let it show when my son is around but sometimes things happend and I take my son and go somewhere for a while to let things cool down, What in the world can I do, We need some mjore help or we need to end this thing but I do not trust him taking care of our son by himself cause he won't do what needs to be done or what should be done like not putting him in a car when you or some one has been drinking, sorry I just have alot bottled up and I have no where to empty all of this,