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I am so scared/my emotions are up and down

Please give me some advice-been married 13 years, been together 20 years-My husband is seeing a coworker-a woman that works for him-it is against company policy and he has brought her around my children and tells them not to tell me-He tells me I am crazy-I don't want a divorce, I want to put my family back together-I have acted crazy finding receipts, but he travels-travels more-does not want to be home because he does not want to fight- has anyone had these feelings of up and down-Please give me some advice-thank you
by GAngelici    1 Post   
Posted on 3/11/2008 5:21 PM    
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I know exactly how you fee as I am getting out after 37 years.  I am scared to death also.  I have been emotionally abused for many of those years.  Please get out before it breaks your spirit as it has mine..but do your homework first.  After all these years he is claming that everything is his in separte property.  Do all your  planning first.  Chances are he is already hiding stuff.  I am at "linkie" or "linky" (can't remember what I wrote.
by linkie   7 Posts
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I have a lot of respect to the fact that you want to keep your marriage despite what your husband is doing. I would say you guys need counselling cause it seems to me that he already has decided he wants a divorce. If he doesn't want to keep the marriage there is not much you can do... but with his cocky attitude he may be jeopardizing his future visitation rights with your children... I understand you are still in love but think about what kind of man would do the things you are telling us here... not a very good one. My advice... get a divorce and get everything you are entitled to...
by Tato   417 Posts
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