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Offended

If I offended anyone on this board here, I would like to apologize. Maybe my opinions are to strong. Joshua made a comment that I must have some failure in my life. Well, he is right. I loved my husband and did not want this divorce. I am in unbelievable sadness and pain. Maybe I always will be. I was married 25 years to him and planned on retiring with him. The blow was hard to take and I feel like a failure in every aspect of my life right now.
by Linny    152 Posts   
Posted on 3/3/2008 1:00 PM    
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Linny,

Im sorry you are struggling right now.  You are not a failure, the situation didn't work.  You tried your best.  What you don't want to do is fail to get up after you have been knocked down. There is a lot to learn from divorce, mainly about yourself.  Use the experience to build a brand new life for yourself.  Stop with the negative talk in your head.  Put a rubberband around your wrist, every time you catch yourself with negative chatter, pop yourself and tell yourself something positive.  You are your thoughts, give yourself a break and remeber YOU ROCK!
by divorcediva   97 Posts
Posted on 3/26/2008 3:48 PM
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I am sorry you still feel the need to be rude towards me.
I thought this board was for encouragement?

 

 
by Linny   152 Posts
Posted on 3/8/2008 3:54 PM
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yes it was me Linny and I will continue to do so whenever somebody is giving advice that is not legally correct. I forgot what thread it was but it was obvious by your answer that you had no clue and that you had some kind of agenda. I feared the person asking might not know enough, take your seriously and make a very bad mistake.

You didn't offend me in the least. If I offended you then put your big girl panties on and get over it. In the future you might do well to recognize what you don't know and not respond to a question with totally wrong information and agenda driven opinion.
by brad   167 Posts
Posted on 3/7/2008 9:03 PM
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Thank you so much to all three of you. You are so right, it is a place to vent. I guess we are all here because we are all hurting and want to see what others are going through to see if we can offer words of encourgement and that is exactly what you guys did.

Thanks. I've learned a lot today.
by Linny   152 Posts
Posted on 3/4/2008 7:30 AM
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i agree.  i really don't think anyone was trying to offend you...i think that divorce is just such a heated topic...and sometimes when people are giving advice, the emotions are just so raw (from personal experience) that things get blurry.  please keep sharing your opinions and thoughts and feelings.  that's what this is all about.
by mikem   286 Posts
Posted on 3/3/2008 2:55 PM
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