Hi there, I'm new here.
I have been married to my husband for 4 years and we have 3 beautiful children together. He is 18 years my senior. He is the kind of man who can be unbelievably sweet one day, and calling me things my worst enemy would never call me the next. In front of my children! He is also a little violent.
Anyway, I finally separated from him, got a restraining order and a lawyer. About a week later, I started getting info that tore my world apart! He has been screwing around on me our whole marriage! We own a bar, and apparently, he and his buddy are known for getting women wasted so they could do whatever they wanted to them. And my so called "friends" and bartenders have caught him doing disgusting things to and with disgusting women and were too afraid of him to tell me. Now, I am not an ugly duckling. And the women I know of that he has been with are absolutely GROSE! He denies it completely and I almost believe that he believes his own lies. but he has always been able to lie as effortlessly as he breathes. I read "the profile of a sociopath" and it is him TO A T!!!! It makes me really sad to think that he never really loved me and that he will never feel remorse for the horrible things he has put me through.Is anyone else going through this? Any advice? He just expects me to believe his ridiculous lies and still tells me he loves me! HOW DARE HE!!! Please help because my heart is breaking! I gave up my entire life and put everything I had into this relationship, and I feel like it was all a lie.