I could write a book on all the things this woman has done. She actively persued my husband after finding out he was married, and took him in while we were taking some time apart after I discovered the affair.
When he came back and told me he was choosing her, I wished them well.
He packed up and left me and my children to move in with her. That's when the harassement began. The hateful words on myspace, the emails, the text msgs. She admitted she told him to stop paying the mortgage on the house I was still living in, to cut me and the kids off completely, she's gone after his family, called me out as a horrible mother in front of my children, tried to talk them into staying with them when I sent them up for a visit.
Don't get me wrong, he made the majority of the bad choices, but she's sitting there along side cheering him on, and attacking me while he looks on himself.

The ink still isn't dry on the divorce and they are planning their marriage ceremony already.

This woman is slightly off hinged, and I'm not saying that to be spiteful I have the police records and psychological records to prove it.

He's chosen to live with this woman, yet I'm the one having to deal with her and now I have to deal with the idea that this woman will be around my children during visitations.

I've turned the other cheek until it's black and blue. Is there anyone out there that can give me some advice?

She has made a very painful period of my life even more painful.