Let's get one thing straight...she didn't get "knocked up". YOU BOTH got pregnant. Usually, without the help of a sperm donor and a turkey baster, getting pregnant takes two people.
No one stood over you with a razor blade to your balls and forced you to have sex with her. No one stood with a shotgun pointed at your head and forced you to say "I do." YOU WERE AN EQUAL PARTICIPANT IN THIS FIASCO. So stop trying to blame it all on her. I bet you had a great time making that kiddo.
I can tell you the exact moment I got pregnant with two out of three of my kids, and two were on the first attempt without birth control. Although she may have deceived you, you don't get out of your parental responsibilities.
You need to consult an attorney to see what your options and obligations are. You may not want to stay married to her. You may want to have a paternity test as suggested. But please, if you are the father, rise to the occasion and be a GREAT father. There is nothing so precious in this world as a child. Until proven otherwise, that bay is YOURS to care for.
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