Elynn, if you truly want to pursue a divorce, you need an attorney.
There is no doubt he was cheating on you. When someone spends time, money, emotion, and effort outside the marriage, it steals from your marriage. It is an affair whether there is sex or not. And he was cheating on you. Where was the rent going? Where was the regualr house payment going? Sounds like he and co-worker were living it up, or he is squirreling away resources for his exit plan.
You have three kiddos, at least two properties, and a lying spouuse. You need a good attorney.
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