I'm not a lawyer, but what I am is someone who believes that it all works out the way it's supposed to - I'll be praying that whoever the judge is has the wisdom to see the situation for what it is and make the best decision for you and yours.
If he's an addict, why not ask to have him tested? Volunteer to be tested yourself, too - a really good move if you know without a doubt that your test will come up clean. You might get some guidance from a drug abuse hotline. I have little tolerance for substance abusers; my bias may lead you down a path not in your best interests - get legal advice on this before you suggest it.
The resident legal expert will likely chime in, as you posted this in the right place.
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