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I Love my husband

I am in pain right now, my whole world has been crushed into pieces. while my husband is a great father to our three sons. He is a very selfish husband. I give all I have to this marriage and he is draining me. He's in school right now and I am a stay at home mom. He leaves when he wants and I always have these three little ones with me, my feeling are never taken into consideration and I am basically tried of how he treats me. He yells for no good reason. I am like the easiest person that anyone can ever talk to. no need for all of that. I have had babies back to back therefore there is not much for me to do. If you could please tell me what should I do. I want to go to conseling but he says nothing is wrong with him. I don't get it. help!
by Carlapooh    2 Posts   
Posted on 1/30/2008 6:58 PM    
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There's nothing wrong with you.. It's great that you love your husband.. Girl firend, don't forget to LOVE YOU.. You can make it with or without him.
Remember, you can't make a person do nothing that they don't want to.
by Monique   8 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2008 12:35 PM
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i am in a similar situation my husband resenlty told me it was over and wanted a divorce i mentioned counseling and he also said there was nothing wrong with him i to have 3 small children 8,6,2 2 girls and a boy my husband is never around he is running a company in nc and is only home every other weekend i recently learned that he has been talking to a women and they have went out to dinner a few times i still love him and do not want a divorce but i also dont want to force him to stay i to am a god fearing woman and that is why divorce is so hard for me i believe that in time god will give me peace and if we are meant to be together then his will be done any advise i would welcome it
by aposey   3 Posts
Posted on 2/5/2008 10:42 PM
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You and your family are in mine Carlapooh. Take care!
by Robert-Boyd   2762 Posts
Posted on 2/1/2008 8:07 PM
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I really would like to thank all of you that responded for your comments, it weird all of you were on the same page. I am a God fearing women and I believe that God used you to tell me this. for all of you God bless you and keep me in your thoughts and prays
by Carlapooh   2 Posts
Posted on 1/31/2008 9:12 PM
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Try and find some time for yourself, I know it is hard, but even if you can put the kids in preschool, "mother's morning out" at a local church. You need sometime to be by yourself or with friends for coffee. You need to seek counseling to cope with your feelings. Is your husband stressed with work, school and financial problems? these are all stresses that can cause strain on a marriage. I admire you for having 3 young children so close and raising them pretty much all on your own. Find happiness and confidence for your kids to see. You sound like a great mom and those three kids are lucky to have you. stay strong and do something for yourself.
by Barkley   807 Posts
Posted on 1/30/2008 9:41 PM
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