stay or move

i live in a different state then my soon to be ex. the children currently live with me. i know its hard on them . mym soon to be ex wants me to move closer to him for the childrens sake. i am considering this but the confusing part in all of this is that my soon to be ex (been seperated for over 2 yrs, but married for 24 yrs) he keeps talking anout getting back together, but he still has a girlfriend and i have moved on and have a bf. but i still have strong feelings for ex. help majorly confused.

by katty 1 Post
Posted on 1/23/2008 9:34 AM

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I just wrote about something similar to this, thought you guys might like it. http://www.divorce360.com/community/profile/journalentry/3208/andreanostramo/to-flee-or-not-to-flee.aspx

by AndreaNostramo 173 Posts
Posted on 1/31/2008 9:27 PM

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Stay where you are. You have moved on and do not want to jepordise what you have made of your life now. I hope you all the best

by hlnhog 2 Posts
Posted on 1/30/2008 4:51 AM

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I would tell him he needs to move closer to the kids as this is what he wants. Let him make the move and remember that it is his choice where he lives, not yours. He cannot have his cake and eat it too. You will always have strong feelings for the father of your children, but please don't lose what you now have with your new boyfriend. Good Luck!

by jrcrzymum 6 Posts
Posted on 1/29/2008 10:08 PM

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i'd move closer for the kids sake...not to be a couple again though.

by cindy 79 Posts
Posted on 1/23/2008 1:59 PM

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