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My wife cheated on me with multiple random strangers she met on a swingers website. She had them in my house with our kids while I was out of town working and went to hotels to meet them while I was home watching the kids. I have email, text, IM, and phone proof, plus she has admitted everything. What are my chances of getting full custody of my kids and proving her an unfit mother? I am with her now trying to work it out but just have no one I can even think about talking to about what she has done. I am too embarrased.

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Posted on 10/28/2009 4:27 PM

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I'm not an attorney, but all this sounds a bit farfetched. How can anyone prove any of that, we did or didn't sleep together, and—al la Bill Clinton, what is sex anyway (does oral sex count? kissing? or is more necessary?)

I dunno...

by Natalie 729 Posts
Posted on 10/29/2009 9:15 PM

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That is an excellent point mtnvly. Yes, if you've been with her since then you can't hold it against her later.

by lifeinpurgatory 1830 Posts
Posted on 10/29/2009 3:08 PM

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I put it there with more info. Thx.

by devastated14 14 Posts
Posted on 10/28/2009 8:34 PM

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Not sure where you are but I have a friend in VA who had an affair. She was advised by her lawyer if she slept with her husband after the fact of the affair being revealed he could not even bring it up in court. It is considered forgiven.
Having said that- it also depends on where you are as to what you can do. Post this in legal answers- this is more of a legal question.

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 10/28/2009 4:29 PM

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