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Well, good.  Then you did exactly right.  I'm glad to hear she's doing better.

I called my attorney this am:  if the kid is sick, call the school, and wait for him to contact you.  So that's what I did.  He lifted the no contact order since I refused to talk to him while it was in place. 

My daughter is doing better.  Fever is down.  She went to the doctor, her lungs are clear, so all we do now is watch and wait. 

Well, since he knows she's sick, I'm sure it would not be surprising to him that she stayed home with you today. 

If he comes "waltzing" over after school is over to get her and she's that sick, he should allow her to stay at your house, in bed.

I hope she is getting better now.

Well, I have to agree he is a dickhead. Take care of your little one and let me know how she is. She is in my prayers.

Your first obligation is to take care of your daughter...the worry of being in trouble over possession must be a secondary consideration. The child's father knows she is ill. Keep her home with you, notify the school & wait for him to show up. I wasn't clear - have you taken the child to the doctor? Given her high fever & the duration of her illness, I would take her to the doctor irregardless of the problems with the HMO - though you should call the insurance co & ask them how to access care - perhaps instructions about what ER to utilize. I hope you daughter has turned the corner & is doing better - but it sounds like she needs to be home with a parent tomorrow no matter what.

Mtn, part of the no contact order is that no one can contact him on my behalf, not my mom or my sister or one of the kids.  He KNOWS she is sick--she has been sick since Thursday of last week, with a fever that spikes up to 103', body aches, headache, dry cough, and her chest hurts.  I called the nurse on call, but since the ex switched HMO's without asking me, but never bothered to find the kids a new clinic or doctor since January, I couldn't get a prescription for Tamiflu because they had never seen her before and didn't have her chart or health history. 

He has been to my house (uninvited) twice in the past day, so he knows that a no contact order only works one way.  I can't contact him, but he can waltz over here whenever he wants.  He is a real dickhead, I tell you. A
nd I did email Spaz. 

I would call my attorney first thing tomorrow morning. I would stay home and keep her at my house. I think the public health system will be on your side with this. You cannot take her out and expose others to the flu. 
Like mtnvly said don't break the no contact order. Oh wow that means he does not even know she is sick. What a mess. 
You poor thing.
((((hugs)))))

Iam have you emailed spaz? Sounds like you are in a pickle! You can't even call or text him to tell him anything! Do you have someone else that can do it for you to see what he wants you to do? A sister - or good friend? What ever you do don't break the no contact order!