Should I Take the High Road?

My ex's GF is engaged to another man. Should I pass on the fact to her fiancee that she is sleeping with my ex? I know it may be childish, but she was the homewrecker that brought herself into our lives. I know my ex had a huge part of it also, but I just want her to feel the pain that I felt. She told my ex that she couldn't let her fiancee go because he was the father to her child. What does she think they did to our family? Or maybe I should just let it go altogether?

by tryin2movon 27 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 1:44 PM

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Tags: revenge , other women , cheating spouses , children , marriage

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Revenge is not the answer. Let it go. It will not do anything but cause problems. I know you are angry but you need things to run its course.

by LISADHORNING 66 Posts
Posted on 11/1/2009 7:59 AM

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I concur be a firm believer in Karma!

by twokidsmum 29 Posts
Posted on 10/29/2009 12:23 PM

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Let it go - take the high road.
You will come out on top and he will get what he deserves...

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 5:23 PM

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It does seem silly, and I am above that. I came face to face with her fiancee and I wanted to so bad, but I didn't. I guess it is one of those things I have to let go.

by tryin2movon 27 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 4:43 PM

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What comes around goes around. They will get what's coming to them. Let it go. The best revenge is living a good life.

by flutterby 829 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 2:48 PM

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I agree. Let it go. They are beneath you.

by greengrass 113 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 2:05 PM

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let it go - there are kids involved - it is horrible that your kids are suffering due to her - but there is no need to create collateral damage to another child to satisfy your taste for a bit of revenge.

by spaznskitz 7745 Posts
Posted on 10/8/2009 1:57 PM

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