Has this site helped you?

This site has been a GODsend for me too!!  I have "bonded" with so many "friends" here, and ya'll really helped me thru a lot of REALLY hard messes!!  As I look back thru my blogs and posts, I can see how I have grown thru this process.  I go to divorce care therepy  each week, and I always tell everyone what a great "family" this is here.  It is amazing to me how I have so many anonomys friends, who support me and are here for me, and what is most important, accept me for who I am....tears and all :)

COMPLETELY!  It has been a Godsend.  I just shared the site with the leader of the DivorceCare group I'll be attending.

Before I found this site, I was confused about some things.

I had withdrawn.

My stbx's affair, with someone I thought was a friend, destroyed my trust in others, and myself.

After discovering my stbx's 2nd affair, and then this site, I was able to see the pattern in her actions and words because of other peoples shared experiences on this site. 

It was like finding he missing piece of a puzzle, and it helped me tremendously. I found out that the emotions, and feelings I was experiencing was consistent with others who have been cheated on by someone they loved.

Us guys don't really have that much support when we get cheated on.  There are friends and family, but I still don't think our culture or laws offer much in the way of support.

Here, you can be anonymous and get feedback.  Thank you D360!

As I consider the problems I read about here, it makes my own somehow easier to understand. So, yeh, it's helped a lot.

It was my life savior. Every day I had to gather strength to make it out of bed and be present for my kids. I had to be strong for them.  This was the only place I found where I could vent, cry and ask for advice.  I shut out my friends, family and neighbors. No one could reach me except the folks on this site. 

I have cried and celebrated milestones with many of you. I only wish I had found it earlier.

I love this site and the relief and comfort I get from the people on it.  Thank you for being there for me at the worst time in my life!

Somewhat...

Your website is overwhelming at first, yet very fullfilling as  satisfactory answers open our closed minds to see the bigger picture as to why things happened the way they did, leading to divorce.    
The experience of individuals has motivated me to be a better person and endeavour to improve in all aspects of life.     Knowledge is the key to understanding as perceptions can truely direct us in a wrong direction.     I have gained a wealth of insight and confidence from making contact with people who have been there and done that----as the saying goes.
Would I recommend this place?     Yes, and I am willing to pay for the privlege.     The ones behind this peoples service are to be held in high esteem as they have succeeded in their goals of helping ones suffering from divorce.

This site was my life raft.  I really felt like I was drowning, and someone threw me a rope.  It was called D360.

I've made some amazing friends here who pulled me up when I couldn't do it for myself.  They never let me give up.

I've given this web site to my divorce attorney, my counselor, and anyone who I thought needed some help.

Although I wouldn't wish divorce on anyone, I pray that anyone going through one finds this site.  We will never know how many people stumbled onto this site like I did and found that rope.

I hope I would have made it even if I hadn't found you guys, but like a friend said to me, why would I want to go it alone?

This site has been a life saver for me! Not only have I made some new good friends- I have learned so much about the reality of divorce . My divorce was not a "bad" one. It was cut and dry pretty much. But the wisdom I gained here was so helpful in helping my ex boyfriend with his ex wife. Not to mention others that I have been able to help and advise. I always point them to this site and have even blogged on here to ask questions for them.
 Another way it has helped me: When I was asked to be a moderator here, I was absolutely SO honored. In doing so- sometimes the encouragement I recieve has helped with my self esteem. It has shown me some abilities that  I did not know I have. I have found that yes- some people are helped with the wisdom I have gained from my lifes experience.
 Thanks to all who have encouraged me, given me advise and helped me thru.

This site has been a huge help for me, where else can a person turn for anonymous help and support.  It seems all the other places just want to score numbers for ad dollars.  Here we can vent, support and just read and learn.  This is truly a unique site.  I hope it will remain for many years.

Yes, it has helped me and I hope it will continue to be here for me for the future or so, which I know is gonna be a real hard year.