Opinions

Why in almost every divorce that someone had an affair (woman or man)? If you are not that person spouse, why can't they respect each other, by keeping their legs closes and they penis in their pants and only open and take out for the person the vowed to spend the rest of their life with, til death due them part.  If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you, what makes the rules any different?  Once a cheater is always a cheater unless they get Christ in their lives.  My stbx wants me to think that his is cheating, as I really think about it...whoever she is I know what she is getting and that is not much!!!! She is seeing on part of him and when she see the real person, she will regret that she gave him the time of day.  Bcz I do!  Since we did a long distance relationship and I went on what others said about him, which they really did not know the real side of him.  I did not learn until I said I do!  But the best thing that have came out of this relationship, 1. I know what I do not want ever again. 2. It has brought me closer to God. 3. It has strengthen my faith.  I would not want my worst enemy to get involved with him.  I am asking God to remove the bitterness from my heart.  I do not blame anybody but myself.  Bcz if my self-esteem was not low and if I wasn't so desperate of being alone I would be with somebody and somewhere else.