Opinions Please!!!

The only advice I can offer is that given to me by my lawyer, they went to the trouble to file the paperwork once, their is nothing in any of this that says they will not do it again.  I didn't and you didn't ask for this, forgiveness is one thing I will not offer her.  This is a tough decision, best wishes for whichever decision you make.

Thank you Kev, I do know he is on a emotional battle.  I really just want out of the situation and live life with the new found peace that I have.  I know that is being selfish, but I feel I deserve it!

My guess is that he probably doesn't have a lawyer as yet.  He is in a state of indecisiveness.  This happens when emotions are involved and so you must perhaps take all his actions with a grain of salt.  You must rely on your instincts and your knowledge of history with him to pursue the matter to conclusion.  If on the other hand you have feelings for him, then take a step back to really consider your life should it be with him or not.  The hardest thing to do in life is decide........Regarding myself, I just cannot decide one way or the other as I am a forgiving man and love my wife who has betrayed me to a great extent.  These decisions really define who we are as persons and can only be decided by us alone.  Consider that happiness is a choice and that we have values in life.  Since we have values it makes it somewhat easier to make a decision.  Life is truely beautifull and lets hope that we decide correctly with enthusiasim.   Kev