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child abuse

my son was injured by my soon to be ex's boyfriend (i have physical custody) so the court appointed counsil for my 3 children now my other 2 are telling their counsler that he is throwing them around as well the cps worker that investigated it told me to file an osc to have the visitation put to supervised thats what her report was going to reflect but the kids attorney is saying she is going to tell both attorneys that she hasnt any information and hasnt investigated and everything should stay the same for now will the judge go by the cps workers report being the kids attorney doesnt have the info and cps has and has investigated it already?

by Tony1   1 Post 
Posted on 1/16/2008 11:01 PM
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Document.... Document....Document!!! If your children aren;t old enough to write it down themselves..do it for them. Look for any kind of brusiing on their bodies. If you have a cell phone ..take pictures if he leaves marks. Go to the courts and file for a PFA ( protection from abuse.) Do it now, not later because eventually your children will come to not trust you if you don't protect them. You have a divine right as their mother to protect them. It'll stop him in his tracks. I know first hand what your feeling and it's hard but you have to set the guidelines for you children, because their dad has a distorted sense of discipline, and He won't stop unless you make him. He's already betrayed them with his violence....don't you betray them with your silence!
by Veronica   3 Posts
Posted on 1/18/2008 11:52 AM
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It sounds like the kids need to be taken away from this situation. Child Protective Services needs to step up and intervene immediately. Keep calling CPS to push this along. You need to do everything in your power to protect those kids if they are being abused. It sounds like you are doing your best but having a tough time with the system. Again, make sure CPS steps up and does the right thing. Good Luck
by Barkley   912 Posts
Posted on 1/17/2008 7:35 AM
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