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I was in a similar situation. I filed for exclusive use of the home and because I am the primary caretaker of the kids, he was given 30 days to get out.  He could afford it, but even if he couldn't I would not have cared. He chose to have the affair, it's his problem.

In the economy right now that seems logical.  However, emotionally that is not a very healthy decision for either of you.  I know ,my husband was to move out last month but did not.  He did move into the extra bedroom but after the first night moved back into the master.  After a month of his phone calls from other women it was I who decided that my emotional well-being and sanity required that I leave.  I was worth more than sitting here putting up with those calls when I told him it made me feel unstable.  Boundaries were crossed.  So,  I have my stuff packed and I am moving to another town into my sisters home.  She is welcoming me with open arms and I know I will be loved.  If you think you can handle that situation than set limits for yourself and your husband.  Either way what YOU decide has to be the best for you.   Hugs and best wishes.