Can't wait to chat with his online love

My stbx only has visitation at my house with the kids (his choice). He is only here a few hours each week, but I still catch him online (I banned the computer, so he purchased an iphone) with his online gf that he left his family for.
btw- they have never met, she is married and lives in another country.
Do I ignore this? I have blown up in front of the kids and it was ugly. I just want peace, but he is a complete idiot for doing this in my house, while I am steps away from him. Maybe it gives him & his gf a thrill? I guess he hates me so much he wants to keep things stirred up and pretend that it is all my fault. So frustrated!

by april421 13 Posts
Posted on 6/15/2009 9:22 PM

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Here's the thing, it may be in your home, but you can not control what he does. Hes an adult, not your child, so reprimanding him or telling him what he can or can't do on his own phone is something that is going to go in one ear and out the other.

It's his loss in the long run - not paying full attention to his kids is going to cause issues later in their relationship with him, if they even choose to have one. Let the cards fall where they may....but keep your mouth shut in the process...

Also take into consideration anything you do say will just be considered jealousy on your part - you really don't want to give him that satisfaction, do you?

by spaznskitz 7745 Posts
Posted on 6/15/2009 9:26 PM

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