Im on the other end of it im the one that cheated after being with my bf after 5 years i just got into a rut i wasnt happy i finnaly got the courage to tell him and we worked it out and i was talking to a guy recently maybe 1 week or less before i said i wasn't happy. the other guy and i would talk for a week and we wouldnt talk for a month that went on for 3 months well i got caught talking on the phone i thought that was the end of us i said i  wouldnt do it again and it i got caught texting well my bf read that out going message> i want to see you in many ways> and we slep together alitte time after that but its been 5 months ago and ny bf just found out well he said he had std and he didn't he just wanted to see what i said when asked if i slept with any one i finnaly said yes i did. I feel horrible i just want to do somthing to myself just maybe that will make hiim feel better but i really dont think hes going to give me another chance. I tell him love him and he hangs up the phone. oh yeah hes in the hospital with a broken femur so that makes the situation even better more stress . he wants me out like tommorow. but i said i wont go i love him and i will do anything to keep him even if i have to live with him not trusting me for a very long time. I m asking you what would you do in the situation i want to stay and grow with him but he doesnt want to hear it this all jusst went down today please i need somthing.

Thank you for your opinion barkley, i let you know whats coming; i feel so belittle and frustrated, but this place has a lot of wisdom for me to learn what i need, i had read all the post and some how i am getting to accept reality, i still worry about what is going to happen because i know very little about law plus i can not be away from my child it make me feel like something missing in my body.

Memo, I am so sad to hear your story. You are still very young and can split a little easier since you two are not married. You child will need you in her life. I know this is tough but your wife is obviously still seeing her boss. Keep us posted. I am anxious to hear what happens.

thank you for your comment bea4, she denies all and shows indifference to me. yesterday, she told me that she no longer want to be with me or love me. since the situation started, she has kept my child away from me and i barely see my child even though we still live at the same place, more over my sister works in the same place as my girlfriend and now she and her boss is giving a hard time to my sister in order to quit from the job, they assume she is who call or some one coming from her, i already had spoken with my sister and she said to not know or had seen something stranger but she is always sent out for the store errands

I think you should talk to her and have her be completely honest with her feelings for you. Maybe suggest counseling to try and make this relationship work. She might open up to the counselor more than you right now if she is confused. What does she say when you ask her about the boss? Does she love him? You sound like a great guy and dad your daughter is lucky to have you.