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by kevinwo 733 Posts
Posted on 7/19/2009 7:05 PM

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I wish I had an answer for you. I don't. You have my best thoughts.

by bluebird 1157 Posts
Posted on 7/13/2009 1:55 PM

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My answer to you is..You know what is right. It will hurt- but you have felt hurt- you probably know hurt intimately now. If you have alot of friends the answer will be at your fingertips. But if you feel alone...its so much harder...In your heart you know if you are going backwards or forwards..Trust that for now.. If you are alone , Invision what you want for yourself- and take nothing less for now..It will be a hard won journey-But it will be yours.

by bevvy 8 Posts
Posted on 7/9/2009 2:08 AM

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Divorce her anyway! My wife has come back twice prolonging my divorcing her. She came back w/tears etc. I still have feelings for her after 23 yrs.& 3 children,but when she come's she stay's for a week and she's gone again.It's time to take control.

by bk98 1 Post
Posted on 7/3/2009 2:42 PM

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I think it depends on the reason she left. If there was cheating involved then you might want to reconsider letting her come back. It's obvious you still have feelings for her which is way you couldn't sign the papers. You might want to see if she will go to counseling with you and see if it is worth working it out. I wish you the best. Good Luck!!!!

by pap 16 Posts
Posted on 5/10/2009 4:46 PM

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Depends on the answer to the $64,000 question:

Is she coming back to YOU, or is she running home because it didn't work out with the OM?

by delia_M 2861 Posts
Posted on 4/27/2009 9:37 AM

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I wanted my stbx back after she left. But after having a lot of time to think about who I am and who she is, I'd not reconcile now. I know there's a better woman out there looking for me as I am someday going to be looking for her.

by BEHaws 657 Posts
Posted on 4/27/2009 9:09 AM

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If you love her and are unable to sign the papers then I think you have answered your own question. The only thing I might give consideration to is what happens (to your heart) if and when she does this again. Something is amiss in your marriage or she would not have taken off in the first place.
If you decide to work on your marriage then you need to seek counsel to find out what the problems are that helped put you and her in this position. You can't go on like nothing happened when she disappeared for 3 months.
You deserve an explanation.

by Kay46514 229 Posts
Posted on 4/27/2009 8:58 AM

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I wish I had the answer for you man. Truth is I did what you are considering and 6 months later (today)
I found out she's Fing her new boss. I filed after the first affair and she's
getting served this week. Really, REALLY think about not just
your feeling but the kind of person she is and whether you
are better off in the long run. I know I should have

by mailman 2 Posts
Posted on 4/27/2009 12:45 AM

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