Daycare ???s Is this even legal?

We are in the final days and have one last thing to agree on... Daycare.  I live in Utah and the statute states that each party will pay 50% of the reasonable child care expenses. 

So here is my question I am a fulltime student and he will only sign the final paperwork if the children attend a state licensed daycare and I provide the following:

1. Certified school schedule at the beginning of the semester with days, hours and times classes begin/end.

2. Certified transcripts at the end of each semester with proof of credit received/grades. 

3. Paperwork from daycare showing hours & days the children are there.

4. Signed bill from daycare center.

5. If I fail to provide any of the above info they will take me back to court and I have to pay 100% of his attorneys fees.

This is yet another way for him to attempt to be in control of my life.  My professors can't even say my grades in class and I'm suppose to provide this PRIVATE information to my ex?  How is this legal?  It is a violation of my privacy and if I get a bad grade it could be very embarrassing.  Nothing in the state statute says this has to be provided.  I understand he needs to know the hours that I am in school but it seems like the hours on the daycares monthly bill would be sufficient.  I would even be willing to provide paperwork from the college after I have paid to show I am enrolled but with the classes crossed out.  I don't think he should even be allowed to know what classes I am attending much less the final grade received.

Can anyone offer any advice?  Have any of you been asked to provide this information?  Can they legally force me to send this info every semester?

Please someone/anyone offer some advice.  I have had this man attempt to control every second of my life for the past 5 years and I don't want it to continue even after the divorce.