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A little Sad tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well my birthday is coming up in a few days and i am a little sad.. All i think about is wanting to spend my birthday with my ex b/f.. It makes me sad to know that he does not care about me and wont be calling me to say happy birthday to me.. I will try to spend my time staying busy and with my kids so i dont think of him.. but it makes me sad... :O(%0d%0a%0d%0athanks for listening

by cherbear   5182 Posts 
Posted on 3/30/2009 8:50 PM
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I know how you feel. The first time I spent without my ex for my birthday was sad.  I actually had an anxiety attack.  But I had my kids which was great and that got me through it.
by LISADHORNING   66 Posts
Posted on 11/2/2009 6:36 PM
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Fact!.....He left you.
Fact!.....He's not going anywhere.
Fact!.....Your not going anywhere.
Fact!.....Delete emotions.
Fact!.....You control how you feel and no one else.
Fact!.....You have lovely children.
Fact!.....Really look into your eye's in the mirror....SMILE.
Fact!.....IT'S YOURRRRR BIRTHDAY AND NO ONE ELSE'S.
Fact!....Breath it...Feel it....Want it......LIFE!!!!

   YOU ARE IN FULL CONTROL AND HAVE ALWAY'S BEEN.....WE TEND TO FORGET THAT WHEN WE GIVE TOO MUCH OF OUR HEARTS.....it's called emotions. 


HAPPY BIRTHDAY
by freddie   24 Posts
Posted on 4/11/2009 1:29 AM
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Dates like your birthday does bring memories and emotions.  I understand and I am sad that you feel sad. Hope you got through the day okay!  Just think of how much better next year will be!  Is there any leftovers from your cake?  Have some for breakfast!  :)

Wow!  How did I miss the date???? I'm sorry!
by 123   1906 Posts
Posted on 4/4/2009 9:16 AM
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HEY, When is your b-day???!!!!
by vlady   2123 Posts
Posted on 4/2/2009 3:54 PM
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Happy Birthday little one ;)
by Gomezz   732 Posts
Posted on 4/2/2009 3:52 PM
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When is my girl celebrating? Let me know hun, I will call and we will drink margaritas until nothing else matters... ((((((X))))))
by gemi   1064 Posts
Posted on 4/2/2009 2:12 AM
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hey cher  HAPPY BIRTHDAY  TO U! go out girl and live it up! have fun and dont think about it.hugs shy
by shy   90 Posts
Posted on 4/1/2009 10:38 PM
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Happy Birthday, go out with friends and celebrate, it will help get your mind off your b/f.  Who knows, you may see someone else interesting.  If nothing else enjoy some good laughs with friends.....
by curious123   979 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 8:42 PM
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Hey, have a Happy Birthday anyway, Cherbear.  You have a lot of good friends right here, and we love you.  I had a birthday a week ago, and wished I wasn't spending it with my wife.

Hugs, lady.
by 2much42long   3031 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 8:38 PM
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Happy B-day, cherbear! Have a great day with your kids and do something special for you!!
by zuki   685 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 6:34 PM
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Get out of the house and do something for you. Have a great birthday!!!!

*Big hugs*
by Lostway   360 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 11:36 AM
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See all the people posting below... look again....what they said...

upcoming birthday hugs to you!

by lizm   703 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 7:46 AM
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I know exactly how you feel, just a couple of weeks age for me.  Do try to get out and do something new and special just for you.  You have the kids and all of us here wishing you the happiest of birthdays ever, just one more new beginning.  * HUG*
by Jamesalone   2778 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 2:13 AM
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I hope you have a fantastic birthday with your kids! My birthday was 20 days after we separated and I kept thinking he would call and when he hadn't I shed a few tears, but I survived it! Remember this, it's his loss, so chin up sweetie!  {{{HUGS}}} Karen
by kdb   3175 Posts
Posted on 3/31/2009 1:28 AM
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Save me a slice of cake please!!!!  Happy B-Day.
by jordan   255 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 9:37 PM
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Birthday, huh?  Well, I think it's time to break the paddle out for you for a change...how many spankings?  Oh yeah, 29 and holding... :)  Cheer up darlin'...I know things look a little bleak right now, but you have three wonderful kids that love you and a whole host of friends from all over the country that care about you...even if we can't be there to spend your b-day w/ you, we're there in spirit...so you aren't really alone...sending big *hugs* your way!!!
by BlueB   2982 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 9:27 PM
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you are a wonderful caring person and celebrating with you is a privilege that he no longer deserves. his loss. i wish we could blow out those candles together but you celebrate with those who really love you-your kids and us.
by ann101   870 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 9:04 PM
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Make some plans with your friends either on your birthday or for the weekend and just have some fun.  We are not defined by the men (or lack of) in our lives.

You're feeling like I was the other night.  Trust me, it will blow over.  You have way too much to offer someone to be alone.


*Hugs*
by Kitty7470   2620 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 9:04 PM
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Oh, Cher!  Any man who can't see what a wonderful person you are doesn't deserve your tears!
by Dactyl   2606 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 8:56 PM
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HUGSSSS!  I want you to have an EXCELLENT birthday!  I really mean that!!!! XOXOX
by HurtInColorado   1139 Posts
Posted on 3/30/2009 8:53 PM
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